In this Episode
- [02:11]Ariya Lorenz shares her origin story, mentioning pivotal moments at ages 18 and 23 that shaped her spiritual journey.
- [12:10]Ariya decided to quit her job and care for her mother full-time, which led to a deep connection with her mother and a profound spiritual awakening.
- [18:18]Stephan introduces the concept of shared death experiences, where loved ones experience the other side during a loved one’s passing.
- [22:36]Ariya emphasizes that energy is the most valuable resource, more so than time or attention.
- [30:44]Ariya tackles how intention and attention shape the quality and direction of energy.
- [38:52]Stephan and Ariya explain the concept of the law of vibration, which states that our vibration determines what we attract into our lives.
- [42:12]Ariya provides practical tips for accessing the higher self and living a higher self lifestyle.
- [53:34]Ariya shares techniques for protecting oneself from negative energy and creating a pure vessel for positive experiences.
- [60:17]Stephan and Ariya give insights on time and soul group participation.
Ariya, it’s so great to have you on the show.
Thank you so much, Stephan, for having me. I’m so grateful to be here.
I’d love to start with your origin story. How did you end up doing what you do? How did you discover that you had gifts? Was there some sort of pivotal moment when you were a child where you realized that you had some superhero abilities?
Well, I had a few pivotal moments. I actually had a big awakening when I was 18, and then another one when I was 23. But I want to tell you a small story that I’ve never told anybody yet.
When I was about six years old, my stepfather gave me a beautiful necklace made of coral. I had a set of two. One night, I went to my mom. I remember it as a day right now. I was looking at these two necklaces, and I realized I loved one of them. It’s round, symmetrical, and beautiful. The other one is a little unsymmetrical. It’s what adults like more. I didn’t like it that much. I thought I should give it away. I thought, ‘Who do I give it to? Give it to Jesus?’
So, I went to my mom and said, “Mom, I want to give this necklace to Jesus.”
Of course, I didn’t tell her that I didn’t like it as much. Nevertheless, she said, “Okay, you put it on your nightstand,” and the next morning, you know she will just take it. I put on my nightstand, did this prayer, and said, “Jesus, this is for you. I’m giving this gift to you.” I slept, woke up in the morning, and looked at the nightstand, and the necklace was still there.
I’m like, “No, it’s not working.”
I ran to my mom. But I’m telling you, I had this whole night with Jesus. I was in Jesus mode.
I said, “Mom, the necklace is still there.”
She said, “He has blessed it. This is now blessed by Jesus. You can be sure he took it. He took the energy and your wish.”
If we receive a blessing energetically, the actual thing that got blessed changes.
That was so powerful for me, because Santa Claus exists, and all of a sudden, he doesn’t exist anymore. Jesus exists. All of a sudden, he doesn’t take the necklace. Those are all things where you’re like, ‘Oh my god, it’s probably all a lie,’ and I was so grateful to her that she did not take the necklace and put it somewhere, that she actually let me have that experience with Jesus.
I’m 100% sure today that it was absolutely blessed. I still have the necklace, and it is now my favorite, of course. But I realized there’s something different than just the physical reality, and that is, there’s an energy, and we can work with the energy, and if we receive a blessing energetically, the actual thing that got blessed changes. And I felt it. I felt that necklace was so powerfully recharged. I was also different because I spent the whole night with Jesus.
From that day on, it felt like Jesus was my best friend. I was with Jesus all my life, never changed. That’s one piece of how it started for me to understand that there is not just a physical reality. There’s also an energy reality.
What happened at age 18 that changed everything for you?
Well, when I was 18, I had, until then, been called the “witch” in my school. People had kind of felt that I was a little bit different. I could feel the energy of people, but I didn’t know how to navigate it. I was worried about people all the time because I saw their calamities, and I was also saddened by the fact that they are not living to their full potential.
Imagine a teenager who’s worried and saddened. Nobody likes you. They think you’re weird, you’re odd, and that’s how it was for me. I finally came to the conclusion that I just need to play the game.
I just need to forget all that stuff and just play the game. I played like the other teenagers did, and I started having a good time. I was 16, having a fantastic time with lots of amazing friends and a boyfriend. I was in love with this boy. I was just accessing this unconditional love again, and I switched back to my angel nature. I was just feeling in love mode.
Now, I was 18, it was winter, and it was really, really cold. The streets were icy. All of a sudden, I had this urge; I needed to drive to his house at 10 o’clock at night. I got my friend. She drove us there. I didn’t have a driver’s license yet. I’d never been to his house. We would always just meet, and he would be with me, and we would be somewhere outside. He lived on a farm.
I arrived at the house at 10 PM. I don’t know what got me to go there at 10 PM, dark, of course. The dad comes right at me and he says, “Christopher’s dead. He’s dead. He’s dead.”

I’m like, “Oh my god, what happened?” I was the first to hear that he had a car accident, and at the time, he was already not with me anymore. It was my ex-boyfriend that I was still in love with.
To tell you the whole story: He drove with his then-girlfriend, and I just fell into a deep hole. I’m like, “Oh my God, the love of my life, the guy I wanted to get back, that I was just ready to win back, is now dead. Everything is gone.”
I went into this super dark hole, and I decided that there’s probably no God, because if you take this away from me, you can’t be a loving God. I know there are a lot of people out there who feel that way. Something happens that’s so traumatic and tragic that how can you have faith in a loving God when you feel that punished? I went into this super dark spiral, and I became clinically depressed. I lost all my friends.
I’ve cried for three days with my friends until they couldn’t bear it anymore that I was constantly crying, understandably, but to me, the world ended. Eventually, it took me several years until I could get out of that depression. I had lost all my friends. I didn’t do anything work-wise. I was just lying in my apartment, either in bed or on the floor, because if I was walking, I was too weak to actually make it from A to B.
So, I had to lie on the floor for several moments, sometimes hours. I went into this dark mode, and I was drawing these pictures of a punishing God, of a God that hates people and that loves it when they love someone, and you can take it away.
There comes this pivotal moment. My best friend at the time came to me and she said, “Ariya, I can’t come back to you. I cannot see you anymore. I know you have nobody left. I was the only one, but I’m not going to come back anymore because I cannot handle your negativity.”
I’m like, “What, I’m speaking the truth. I’m in truth. I understand this is all negative. You guys are all delusional.”
When you prepare, something happens in your brain; you consider something possible. Because you consider it possible, it becomes possible.
But then I realized, ‘Wait a minute, do I know what the truth is?’ Thinking brain kicked in. I have a really strong thinking brain, logical thinking.
I grew up in Germany, so I’m thinking logically now, making an equation, I’m saying, “Okay, this has been now two years. You’ve been super depressed. You’ve been super negative. Why? Because you wanted to avoid that. That deity out there that’s punishing you gets to have one more fun with you; gets to enjoy the fact that you love somebody, and it gets taken away. You have joy, and it gets taken away.”
But what did it do for me? Did I have any joy? No. If somebody were to die right now, would I be less sad? I realized, no, I would be as devastated, only now I was so depressed I couldn’t even kill myself.
I realized this is not useful for anything. Whether this God is bad or good, I’m not having a good time. Okay, look at the other equation: 50%, this God is bad. 50%, this God is good. If I do the 50% God is good, am I going to be less sad if somebody dies? No, am I going to have a good life until somebody dies? Yes, I’ll have friends, I’ll have joy like this, a better equation.
I literally decided I’m done with the depression. I got up and I said, “I’m gonna give it a try. I’m not gonna believe anything. I don’t believe in a good God or bad God. I’m just gonna give it a try to see what happens if I’m going to go positive now,” and everything changed.
I had a new boyfriend who was the most loving person in the world and helped me grieve through this process of losing Christoph. I had friends back. I had a beautiful job. We went on vacation, and I realized I’m still faking it, but I’m having a better time now.
Did you get a message from Christoph that let you know he’s okay on the other side? That all works out in the end.
There’s a big gift that wants to be birthed, and that gift can only come out when you’re plugged into your source.
I love that you say that—really good question. What happened is it took me another year or so, two years, until I came to my real awakening. That was just 22. So right now I’m faking it, and I get the message.
I’m driving to my mom’s house. I’m, as I said, with my beautiful boyfriend, driving to my mom’s house. My mom was my absolute confidante. I grew up with unconditional love. I grew up with the best life; complete love in my life. I never got punished. I never got treated badly. Always understood what was happening. I had a really great mom and a really great relationship with her.
Today, I’m driving to my mom, and there’s something that comes over me as I’m driving in the car. I remember holding the steering wheel, looking out at the landscape. Trees are going by, and something feels different. It felt like I was in a dream. I’m seeing the same trees, but I’m all of a sudden in a dream, and what’s going on? This light came over me, and I started to feel a sense of light; it’s just there, and I’m wondering, ‘Okay, something is about to happen.’
There’s something going on. As I came home to my mom, I parked the car. I can’t wait to tell my mom. She opens the door, and her whole face is yellow. Her eyes are yellow. We realized, “Oh, my God, we have to get you to the hospital.”
Long story short, she had pancreatic cancer. She got that cancer diagnosis that day, and what happened from there is, I knew my mom was gonna die. I’d lost my dad at age two. I’d lost my first love that I loved at age 12, which I was in love with, but it wasn’t a relationship or anything. Then my grandpa died in a tragic situation, and my ex-boyfriend, whom I was still in absolute love with, died.
Now, I’m 23 and my mom’s about to die. I’m like, “I’m going with you. I’m going with you. There’s no way I’m staying.”
We went into this journey of one year where I quit my job, I went home, I cared for her, I said, “I’m just going to be with you.”
She told me about the other side. She said, “You know, I’m going to go see dad, I’m going to see grandpa, I’m gonna say hi to Chris. You just relax. I want you to have a good life. I’m gonna communicate with you from the other side,” because she gave me so much time, and I had a whole year of grieving before she died.
Actually, I had started communicating with the other realms. I started talking, working with them, just in my mind. I told my mom how we would communicate. We were preparing. When you prepare, something happens in your brain; you consider something possible. Because you consider it possible, it becomes possible. Your brain starts to specialize in actually working in that range.
It’s really important to realize that there’s more to you than just your physical body. Once you tap into that, you can have a wealth of support, joy, happiness, and fulfillment.
My brain started to specialize in clear audience and clear voice, and clear communication to the other realm, because I wanted it so bad. I started to hear grandpa, and all of a sudden, when I came home to my mom, she said, “I’m really having so much pain.” I touched her body, and I could feel the energy. It just switched on. I could feel the energy.
I could feel where our energy streams were. I could feel the meridians, and I could feel the pain and where the pain was. I put my hand, and I literally dissolved the pain with my mind, and it was gone in five minutes. I learned to dissolve the pain, and didn’t learn yet how to heal, but I was starting to be connected with that until the day she died. We kept her at home.
The room was lit with sunlight. It was a beautiful room. She had been lying there for two days, and she couldn’t move anymore. Before she was all active, and we were talking. All of a sudden, she wasn’t moving. She was in bed.
We knew it was close, and my boyfriend was there. I was there. We were holding her hands, and she took her last breath, and when she took her last breath, it was like this, and the whole room lit up with light. Everything lit up. I saw angels. I felt it was as if the other side, as if that heaven that I wanted to go to so bad with her came down to us, and everything felt soothing. It felt more than happy. It felt like a baby was born.
Only later, when I had my boy, I realized that’s how it felt. And we were basically there when she was birthed into the other plane. And because we were so close to the two planes, we could actually experience our side here became very dim, so we’re losing her.
The other side, where she was born, became very bright. We could feel it. We could feel the other people. We could see she had this amazing smile on her face, and we could tell it was. It looked like she saw God. From that day, everything changed for me, like I’m not faking it anymore. I know this is real, and I know what to do, because I learned that my mind, where I place my attention and where I generate feelings towards, becomes bigger in my life. I realized the question of whether there’s a good God or a bad God is not the question.
The question is whether you attune to the good energy that’s out there or to the bad energy. When you’re attuned to the good energy that’s out there, you can actually perceive what is there on that frequency of goodness, and from then on, nothing is the same. I started to develop my healing skills. I started as a healer. Then I helped people talk with their loved ones and build bridges, and now I basically bridge heaven on earth.

That’s wonderful. I recently heard the term ‘shared death experience.’ I hadn’t heard that before. Let’s say last year. It’s kind of in the category of near-death experience. But the near-death experiencer is firsthand experiencing a death experience. Then they come back, or they’re brought back, whereas in a shared death experience, the person who is the loved one is actually going and not coming back, but you are being brought into the experience of it.
So you get to see maybe loved ones coming to greet this person from the other side, or angels escorting this person. Or you get to experience God consciousness, something that is profound and part of their welcoming. You get to experience that, or at least get a glimpse of it. Are you familiar with that term, ‘shared death experience’?
No, my God, I love it. You are basically just validating what I experienced there. I love it. I love it. I want so many people to have this life-changing experience. It’s so beautiful.
I’ve watched a lot of near-death experience videos on YouTube of people who have described their NDE, and what it meant for them and how it changed everything for them. Powerful. There are some key foundational concepts that appear in pretty much every NDE, like the absolute love of the Creator. Of all that is the master of the universe, our Creator. Many of them have this bright light or tunnel, but not everyone. They all describe a love that is indescribable and unlike anything they’ve experienced on Earth.
I think if you get to get a glimpse of that, why you’re on Earth, that’s the biggest blessing, because you’re literally bridging both worlds. Often, I work with a lot of people who really long to go to the other side, who feel they’re not really here or meant to be here. They’re either not feeling like they’re in their bodies, or they feel like they don’t belong, or they’re just odd. Most of the time, this is because they haven’t activated their connection to the other side as strongly as they need to to actually bring that gift forward. Here on planet Earth, they have a big gift to bring; this is what I experience.
If you’re not tapping into your higher self, you’ll make many mistakes and experience a lot of deviations.
There’s a big gift that wants to be birthed, and that gift can only come out when you’re really plugged into your source. When you’re plugged into why you’re here, and also the fact that you’re eternal. You’re not just going to have one physical experience and that’s it. You’re an eternal being that has one incarnation in this moment. And that eternal being we can get in touch with and start to communicate with.
I started to help people do that. I call it the ‘higher self,’ because I felt like that really remedies all that longing, for that connection that can never get really met with a relationship, that longing for belonging, and also eliminates the agony of feeling like you’re not right here, or you have this big abandonment you can rid of.
Because you’re never alone, the truth is, you’re never alone. And yet we feel alone, but that is because we’ve forgotten who we are, and we buy into the illusion.
That’s right. It’s cool to know it, but once you experience it, you know there’s no going back.
I was in India at an event run by monks, and they explained that God, or the divine, is an experience, not a belief. And that really shifted a lot for me, because what a profound paradigm to live in that God is an experience, not a belief. And then the other thing that really made a difference for me, I learned later, was a Wayne Dyer quote, and it was that, “We’re not human beings having a spiritual experience. We are spiritual beings having a human experience.”
Exactly. And once you get that, a lot of the pain falls away, and I learned that from my own example. But then I started to work with a lot of people, and I realized, ‘Wow, people came.’ They started to come for healing, because I started to really hone my healing skills by communicating with that part of me that’s not incarnated with my higher self. I got all the messages of how I need to heal, but eventually I realized, if I help them heal, they still feel separate from their purpose. They still feel separated from who they really are, and there’s still a longing and maybe a miss, and that miss will create a different part, a different disease.
Energy is your first money and bank account, because having all the energy you need means you can make money.
It could be physical, emotional, or mental. And unless we fix that, unless we actually plug everybody into the outlet so that they can have the energy for this lifetime, and they also can have the information for this lifetime of what they need to live, they’re never going to be fully healthy and fully fulfilled. I think it’s really important to realize that there’s more to you than just your physical body. Once you tap into that, you can have a wealth of support, joy, happiness, and fulfillment.
The higher self is the part of you that’s much bigger, that’s above the tree line or above the canopy of the rainforest, can see way far ahead, and the part of you that’s down on the ground can only see a little bit into the distance. And it’s kind of like having a headlight or a flashlight that illuminates the next 50 meters, but then you have to go another 50 meters for the next 50 meters to be illuminated. So you’re not getting the next 100 miles illuminated.
That would be like getting the movie script before you see the movie. And who wants to see a movie if they’ve read the script or seen the plot line on Wikipedia?
Wonderfully explained, absolutely yes. If you’re not tapping into your higher self, you’ll make many mistakes and experience a lot of deviations. It’s not an effective way to live because your time isn’t used effectively. Your energy is used effectively, and probably not your money either. If you tap into your higher self, you can gain a clear vision of the bigger picture you mentioned.
You gain a clear vision of the bigger picture, including what you need to do, what others will do, and what will happen over time. And do you think that if you could take into account everything that’s going to happen in the future and now, what other people do in the future, and make a decision from that vantage point, you would make better decisions, of course, right?
Any decision, pretty much, small or big, I ask God and I get guidance on what to do. We have on my podcast, whether to do my prayers first, eat dinner first or everything. It’s my North Star. It’s my GPS to get through the day. I just can’t imagine not being plugged in like that. There’s this concept of how we used to manage our time. Now we’re managing attention.

I just read a post on Facebook from Alen Sultanic, who’s an internet marketer, very successful, and he’s like, “No, we’re not in the attention economy anymore. We are in the energy economy because people are not showing up for webinars and things because they don’t have the energy left that’s being spent so much on swiping and scrolling on social media and all this sort of stuff.”
It’s not just the attention that’s getting soaked up by these addictive apps on our phones and on our computers. It’s our energy. So if you manage your energy, that’s where you have a different life.
That’s such a powerful epiphany and such a powerful statement to make in this day and age, that we actually need to hone our gifts of energy. We need to hone our skills in energy management. If we hone our skills in energy management, then we have the money in the bank. If you have enough money in the bank, you can do a lot of things, but if you have energy in the bank, you can do even more.
Energy is your first money, your first bank account, because if you have all the energy you need, you can make the money. You can spend the money. You can have the relationships. You can have fun with those relationships. You can take these vacations. You can communicate with your loved ones. You can do the hobby you want to do. You can be good at your work.
You can do whatever you want to do, but you need energy for everything, for everything, and that’s why I feel energy is the first currency that we need as a master, and this is a time we don’t have to look at, how do I survive anymore?
Because most of the time, our survival is taken care of. We have a roof over our heads. We have enough food to eat. That’s it. We have air to breathe. Thank God. But the next thing is, how do you spend your energy? If you’re spending more than you have, then you’re going to run out of energy, and you’re going to run out of the joy in your life. Everything you do is really for nothing, because you’re doing it for the joy in the first place.
If you don’t replenish your energy, too, like if you’re depleting yourself, and then you don’t take the time and have the intention to replenish. You’re running on empty continuously, whereas if you replenish through your connection to the all that is to God consciousness, then you’re plugged back into the power station.
A great example of this is a little exercise I learned from a book called The Tools by Phil Stutz. Phil Stutz is an amazing psychologist, and this book is brilliant. He also, by the way, has a documentary about him that Jonah Hill created, called Stutz. It’s on Netflix. It’s really good, but this book is phenomenal.
And of the five tools, this tool in particular is really, really powerful, and it’s where you visualize the person you’re in conflict with in front of you. Then you visualize the energy of love and forgiveness and just light flowing from your heart center to that person’s. You imagine yourself being that person, receiving that energy and feeling what that’s like. And then after you feel that, that person is filled up, then you stop, and then you go, and you get filled up from God, from above. And you imagine it coming into your crown chakra and into your body until you’re fully filled up.
I did that exercise. I did it with my aunt, whom I had cut out of my life for several decades. She had never gotten to meet my daughters, who were already teenagers and young adults. I was very angry with her for a very long time. So, I did this exercise with her, and right afterwards, I called her. She’s been in my life ever since I forgave her, and I believe that that shifted the timeline I was on.
I had a version of her that was much more amenable to hearing me out, validating me, and being kind. It was just a really beautiful experience, but that part of the process where you fill back up with love is so critically important, because you’re not giving your energy away. You always have that infinite source at your disposal at all times. So yeah, it’s energy management, but it’s also a recognition that it’s infinite.
I love it. That’s so powerful, and this is where it is, what you just explained in that example, you use your attention and your intention, and that’s really how you manage energy, right? I help people to manage energy in the form of filling up and having an overflow, and also in cutting out leaks, closing holes, so they don’t run out of energy, and as well, with protection so they don’t take on the wrong energy.
Those are the three factors that are important: protect your energy, create an overflow and stop leaks.
I help people manage their energy by filling up and preventing overflow, and also by cutting out leaks and closing holes to conserve energy.
What you’re sharing right now is a use of the energy in a way that can actually transform a situation. And energy transforms situations all the time, only, most of the time, not in our favor, because we don’t know how to use it. So, for example, you used your attention and your intention. The intention was, ‘I want to reconcile this relationship, and I want to bring love to that relationship.’ That’s the intention. That intention determines the energy quality. Had you focused on joy, a different quality; had you focused on peace, a different quality; you focused on love. So that intention is the focus. Intention is what directs it.
Now your attention creates the flow, the direction of the energy. Your intention creates the quality, your attention creates the direction. And with your directional energy, you thought of your aunt; you could have thought of your bunny. The energy would have gone to the bunny, but you thought of your aunt, and therefore, you literally sent that energy in that particular quality to your aunt. Now, your aunt and everybody here is an energy field. We’re an electromagnetic field. And all the particles in our bodies are held together with energy.
If we instill that energy with a certain quality via these tools of how we matched our energy, then we can affect a situation positively or negatively. And why I say negative is because many people use it negatively, because they don’t know that they’re using energy. I did that when I was depressed, and it worked really well. I got so depressed, I lost all my friends. It everything went downhill.
And a lot of people do that, especially during this time. That’s why I think it’s relevant. Because if we focus our attention on the things we don’t want, then we give the things we don’t want energy. We create a directional flow there.
If we then have an intention of it being scary, then we’re going to create more fear. Intention. In this case, I don’t have an intention for it to be scarier. But if I see, let’s say, bombs falling, which you’re in this situation right now, that’s a tough one. If I see the bones falling, my intention is normally what my feelings are about, yeah, what I’m feeling about.
Your attention creates the flow; intention creates the quality.
So if I’m feeling it strongly enough, because I’m seeing it, it counts as an intention only. It’s subconscious. I’m not conscious about it. That’s why we can’t call it an intention, but it’s the same quality of energy.
It’s basically that focused energy that comes from a feeling, tone, and so if I’m seeing those bumps and I’m afraid, I’m creating more fear in my life, and I’m accelerating the fear as well. Many people do this, and then they wonder, “Why do things go downhill?”
I hear people say, “Oh, we’re in the worst times.” We’re not. We’re living in amazing times. People wake up. I mean, think of the medieval times. Think about when you had to go out on the street and were covered in mud, walking in poop. You could have been shot at any moment. We don’t live in that time. Most people aren’t, thankfully.
We don’t have a king like Vlad the Impaler. It’s like, we get to walk to the grocery store. There actually is a grocery store, and we get to buy food there. It’s amazing.
Yeah, when we get to buy all those things that we don’t need, we end up buying only what we need. We get to buy from an overflow. It’s like a buff. Area of excellence and amazingness, and people just need to wake up to that. And the whole fear has to do with us using energy wrong. The media wants that, of course, so we’ll perpetuate it. We’re using our energy not in our favor, but if we learn how to use it in our favor, we can create magic.
Another way that we use it, not in our favor, and I think it’s unconscious and unintentional for most people, is that it’s in many religions referred to as the evil eye, where envy, jealousy, and resentment are sending spiky, dark energy to the person that we are envious of. So their abundance becomes a thing that we despise or that we want to steal from them, and then we actually hurt them energetically.
We don’t realize how powerful we are. If we gossip about that person or say slanderous things about that person, that is terrible, spiky energy that we’ve directed at them. People can actually die from that. I remember hearing about The Four Agreements, Don Miguel Ruiz. One of the agreements is impeccable with your word, and with this being impeccable comes the opposite; if you don’t, then maybe you will gossip about somebody. He equated that to black magic. So you are using black magic every time you gossip about somebody. I believe 100% that’s true.

So powerful. I love that you mentioned that, because here’s the trick: if you are gossiping, and if anybody’s gossiping, you’re literally getting yourself below the level where positive experiences reside.
So the trick is to understand that and to realize you’re not just eliminating gossip because you want to be a better person. You’re eliminating gossip so that you can actually get what you want in life. Because everything you want is above that line, that line is defined by David Hawkins’ work Power vs. Force, with a vibration that you’re vibrating on, so your energy field can be measured vibrationally. And if the vibration is at a lower level, below 350, where gratitude is, then you’re attracting all the negative things.
If you’re gossiping, or if I’m gossiping, it would definitely operate from that lower level, down there is fear, shame, hatred, and there’s also hope. It’s still down below, although it’s going into the more positive. But as soon as we hit the gratitude level, everything becomes positive above that, above that is unconditional love, there is joy, there’s happiness, and you’re really depriving yourself of joy, happiness and unconditional love, if you’re gossiping, because if you understand this, and that’s why I call it a trick, it’s not really a trick, but the trick is to really grasp it, to really get it.
If you understand that, if you’re gossiping about somebody saying bad things about them, yes, it harms them, but it also harms you, because you have to go to that vibrational level of where that gossip happens, and during that time, you’re attracting all the things you don’t want, and you may be very likely gossiping about yourself all the time, in your mind, you didn’t do that wrong. You did that wrong. And so, this is why I love that you brought this up, Stephan: gossip is actually the first thing that needs to be eliminated to reach your higher self level. In order to communicate with the higher self consciously, you have to eliminate gossip. And it’s powerful.
And related to that is the evil eye and the envy and so forth, even if you say nothing about the person, but you envy what they have, and you’re looking with that kind of lack consciousness and lack of gratitude. You have to be an ingrate to look at somebody else’s success and their abundance and feel like that’s unfair. They shouldn’t have that. I should have it instead. Well, you’re sending that black magic again to that person, and you’re lowering your vibration.
If you are gossiping, you’re essentially bringing yourself down to a level where positive experiences no longer exist.
I love this statement. I don’t remember where I heard it from, but there’s the law of attraction, which is real and very effective, but it doesn’t work if you don’t have the law of vibration. The law of vibration supersedes the law of attraction. If your vibration is low and you think, think, think about the things that you want, and you’re wondering, Why am I not attracting them? I’m thinking about checks arriving in my mailbox, and they’re not showing up. I don’t think about bills. I always think about checks. Well, if your vibration is in a lower consciousness, then the vibration is attracting the low vibration stuff and not the things you want.
Exactly. And this is so powerful, because the evil eye and this vibrational example you’re giving also has to do with a misconception, because when people are manifesting, now we’re talking manifestation. I love that when people are manifesting something, when it starts to come to them, let’s say you’re manifesting the love of your life, or you’re manifesting that extra raise in your paycheck. When you start manifesting and you start visualizing it using the law of attraction, you are actually starting to see it in your outer circumstances.
First, it shows up around you. What that really means is your manifestation is working, and you should congratulate yourself and say, “Hey, I see it in others.” So I’m getting very close.
If you do that, you continue that flow that you created of attracting this, and you become, like you said, Stephan, a vibrational match to what you want, because now you’re not only imagining it, you also are seeing it in your outer world, which makes it easier for you to feel it. So now you’re becoming even more of a vibrational match. But if people then become envious, they turn this thing upside down, and they create a downward spiral, and then they push it away from them. If they say, “I’m envious.” Then, you’re saying to the universe, ‘I don’t want it,’ because now your vibrational match is to I don’t have it.
It’s something to be avoided. Therefore, it’s really important when you see something positive happening for somebody else, celebrate it, because if you celebrate it, then you know that more of that will also come to you because you’re already seeing it. That means it’s already in your field. And as you celebrate it, you become even more attracted to that. It’s like strengthening or quickening the river that brings it to you.
And I learned this from Kabbalah, that if you have a desire for something, that means the fulfillment has already happened. It’s just maybe not materialized into the physical realm yet, but you already have the fulfillment. Otherwise, you wouldn’t desire the thing.
As we hit the gratitude level, everything becomes positive above that.
100% and those are the old teachings. And when we go back to the old teachings, it could be the Kabbalah, it could be the Bhagavad Gita, it could be the Bible. You have to read everything correctly, so you kind of empty out the interpretation. But if you get into the deep teachings, it could be the Quran, the torah, any religious scripture, if you go to the essence of that, that’s where all of that is taught. That’s where manifestation is taught. That’s where energy management is taught, and that’s also where contact with the higher self is taught.
And you said earlier, I want to quickly mention that talk about that when you said, I’m talking to God directly, what that means is you have honed the energy capacity of your energy system to actually communicate in the settled of realms. What does that mean? Well, we have a pituitary gland and a pineal gland, which are two glands that are responsible for sending and receiving energy in the inner realms, in basically the invisible world. And for most people, those are dormant. They’re sleeping. They’re just hormonal production. But if you activate them, and you can, just like I said earlier, wishing for it is the first step, because it opens that up.
If you activate it, then you can hone these skills, just like if you, for the first time, took a hammer and you started hammering things, nails into the wood. There’s a hit or miss, but if you’ve done it a lot, there’s no more hit or miss. If you’ve done it a lot, a lot, it’s just going to be one bang and the nail is in. So everything gets better with experience. What you’re saying, Stephan, because you are, of course, a higher self Master. You’re adept with higher self communication. And what you’re saying is that you have honed the skills that you can not only receive information indirectly, which is our intuition, which everybody has, but you can actually have direct communication with that higher realm.
You mentioned, you said God, and God is such a high vibration that God, directly, as in its form, communicates down into our system in denser and denser and denser forms, until our brain can actually pick it up, our pituitary gland and pineal gland can pick it up and what comes in between God and us is, of course, our higher self. There are a few other layers there as well, but we can communicate directly with God through communicating with our higher self, and eventually you can even eliminate the higher self, not that it’s gone, but you can bypass the communication with the higher self and have God directly communicate through you, but not because you just intend it. Intention is good, but it creates a flow. So you just have intuition. It’s only 60% accurate, but if you actually hone your skills of communicating in the higher realms in that way that you train yourself, then you have 90% accuracy. And that’s where you’re coming from.
I work really hard to maintain the purity of thought and protect my eyes. It’s called shmiret, and I’m in Hebrew means guarding the eyes. So I don’t want to see anything lewd, I don’t want to see anything violent or dark or low vibration, because that will interfere with my connection. I’m very mindful about that.

Oh, my God, so powerful. And that brings us to why so many people are nowadays depressed or in anxiety because they’re watching all the time through their eyes, especially, I mean, little kids get these devices already. They allow through their eyes violence, difference, enemies, scary situations, all of that when it comes into the eyes, especially when you’re younger, until the age of nine, you’re really absorbing everything like a sponge. But you also, as an adult, if you look at it just on the side, if the TV runs in the background, for example, that’s poison, because it programs your brain immediately into those factors, fight or flight, danger, and that’s the lower part of the brain.
Then we’re stuck in the lower part of the brain, which is the limbic system, our oldest brain, and that is only programmed and ready to help you survive. It doesn’t help you thrive. It helps you survive. And if you’re stuck in survival mode, there is no thriving there. If you want to get to thriving, you need to get from the back of the brain to the frontal lobe, where thriving resides, and that’s where we, all of a sudden, care about each other, we care about the world, and we care about our mission and how to fulfill our mission. Now, can you imagine, if you’re inundated with games, visuals, news, all kinds of difficult movies, when you’re inundated with that, that you can still be open from the heart and from the mind to all that is good? I don’t think so.
I think you have to close down at least to a degree because you’re going to protect yourself. Your brain thinks you’re in war. If you’re watching a war movie, your brain thinks you’re in war because the brain does not understand the difference between an imagined event and a real event. That’s scientifically proven. So if we create these events nonstop in our lives by listening to the news, by gossiping with other people, by looking at movies that are disturbing, then we’re training our brain that we are currently in war, or need to at least fear for our survival. And when that happens, something amazing happens in the brain that we cannot control with our will. And people think they control it without will.
They don’t. What happens is the brain shuts down the frontal lobe. It shuts down all these capacities of clear thinking, communication, executive function, and thinking executive function, and it actually goes into that survival mode. Now, when you’re in survival mode, you don’t know the difference. You don’t know whether you’re in survival mode or in creative mode, because it feels the same. But when you’re in survival mode, you don’t have digestion turned on because you’re running away from a tiger in your mind. So no digestion. That’s where the digestion problems come. You don’t have compassion.
That’s why you all of a sudden stepped on somebody’s toes or said something bad or mean, and they didn’t even know you did, because you don’t have compassion, you don’t feel the other people, and it turns off all your environmental understanding, so you don’t understand circumstances. You literally have pinpointed focus towards one goal, and that’s surviving. And that’s when people think, oh my gosh, they’re selfish. You become a selfish person without knowing it. And if you live that way from day to day, you wonder why the relationships don’t work, why you’re not happy. Well, it’s simple. It’s very simple. You just need to take the road from here to here. It’s this short get from out of survival mode into the frontal lobe, and there are many things that help with that.
For example, the meditations we do have metaphysical tools. But what Stephan just mentioned, and I love that you mentioned, is that Stephan starts by eliminating what you see. See, that’s not a good start by eliminating anything that’s not positive, that comes into your eyes or ears, just creates purity of your environment. So you don’t feed. You don’t feed. I want to say this again: you don’t feed your system with what you don’t want. Because if you feed your system with what you don’t want, and it’s not only food, I’m talking about, really thoughts and feelings as well, then if you don’t feed yourself with that stuff, then you create a pure vessel that can thrive and create continuously what it wants. That’s what it takes.
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Yeah, and that’s where real bliss lies. That’s what we call the jet stream of the higher self, my program. Because real bliss resides there. That’s when you all of a sudden become the beneficial presence, the person who does something good in a situation where something good is needed. You’re not the one who thinks about, oh, what’s bad? You’re the one who thinks about, okay, how can I help in a way that you actually are helping, and you help yourself along the way, because you’re creating that overflow.
It’s not sustainable to help if you don’t have an overflow, because you run empty, you create an overflow first, same with money overflow, and then give from the overflow, and the money comes in that way too. The relationships come in because you, like you said, raise your vibration to that higher consciousness that accesses all the potential that you have. And that’s not only your physical potential, it’s all the energy. Can you imagine if you use the energy around you in your favor, how much more power you would have? It’s infinite.
Yeah, so it’s not just about the physical of going from sympathetic to parasympathetic. It’s that Hawkins scale of energy and where you’re going from a lower vibration to a higher vibration, so that you are more connected to your higher self and to your higher power, your God consciousness.
Beautifully said, it’s like plugging yourself into the electricity of the whole planet, and running your house, your life, everything on that electricity, and it never runs out. So you basically plug yourself into an infinite supply of energy. And you know how to navigate that energy. Well, like a captain knows how to navigate a boat on the ocean, it can go anywhere, right? There are no limits. You just have to know how to navigate it so you don’t drown and so it doesn’t come into your boat. You just want to have the right tools. But once you know that there are no limits, that’s when people have instant manifestation.
When you start manifesting and visualizing using the law of attraction, you begin to see changes in your outer circumstances.
That’s when people can live in a war zone like you, Stephan, in Israel, where the bombs are right and left. And I asked you yesterday, How are you doing? He said, We’re doing well. I’m like, what? How can you do? Well, with the bombs going off next door, you’re like, we’re protected. And this is where I put my energy. This is where I put my attention. And because I’m putting my attention and intention on we’re protected, we are.
I know a certain that we’re protected. The nearest bomb hit was about 10 10-minute walk from here.
Gosh, I mean, shivers when I hear that. And that’s so powerful. And I have so many stories also, you know, that I’ve experienced, and this is kind of how belief gets created. When you see the evidence of your work, you see the evidence of your work, you start to realize this is real, and then you start to decide, okay, I’m believing that. Now, once you believe it, you actually create it. And a belief is a choice, right? A belief isn’t just something that automatically happens to you, but it gets reinforced by repetition. And so when you see miracles happening all the time, like I had a fire, you know, an amazing experience. I had wood in my storage.
And I was living in the city at the time, and I was firing my wood stove in winter. So we needed wood in order to be warm in Germany gets cold there, and so I had to do this whole endeavor with getting friends on board to cut wood in a whole week. And we cut all the wood, and we stored it. And so I had it in storage with all the other people storing their wood in the city. And I got this phone call one morning, and the lady called me and she said, “Hey, I’m really sorry to tell you, but we had a fire, and the whole wood storage burned down. What? Oh my gosh.”
Now, every morning, I do a protection shield around my physical body and my belongings and my loved ones. I’m like, “What? Syringe. Okay, so I’ll go there, drive with my bike.” Sickle. Get to the shed, see everything black in ashes. The building isn’t even there anymore. You see some stacks laying around of burned wood. And I come to my part of the storage. Guess what? That’s the only stack that wasn’t burned. Not one thing outside was a little bit black, and everything else is completely perfect. Those are things that you can do with that and work with the energy in the right way.
With a high intention, right? So you’re not doing it for selfish reasons. You’re doing it because you want to be of service, and you need to protect your stuff, your resources, so that you can be in greater service.
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That high intention is a powerful thing you’re mentioning, because that high intention, while it doesn’t necessarily change the manifestation, it changes the energy behind the manifestation. So, for example, if a person has a bad intention, they want to just get a ton of money, like a mafia boss or somebody who wants to get a ton of money. They don’t care how they get the money, because they’re putting their intention and attention on having money. They don’t put their attention on, oh, I don’t have it. I want it. They say, I got it. Get out of the way. They’re getting it very quickly. But they don’t have a lot of energy behind anything they do.
They have to push through everything. They have to literally fight their way through. Because if you have a high intention, what happens is that all the beneficial forces of the universe conspire with you, and they open doors for you. And that’s when you can sit and like the mafia boss who has to do it all and, you know, direct people and fear for his life all the time. You can lean back in your chair, you can say, Bring it on, and you know it’s coming. I mean, literally, just a few days ago, I had my neighbor drive down, and I’m like, How come she’s coming? And she had her basket full of these big mangoes. What happened is, I thought I wanted mangoes.
The neighbor comes, brings me buckets of mangoes. One thought, even just in the back of your mind, if you are on that high consciousness, tuned in, and you have eliminated the factors that don’t help you, and you know how to master energy, which is very simple. It’s not complicated. If it’s divine, it’s simple. If it’s complicated, it’s human. Just these simple tools in place will create a lifestyle where you’re just surprised by the things you get before you even wish for them. You can attest to that, Stephan.
Yes, I can. And also, when you were talking about the mafia boss example, I was thinking of the Bible quote, and the way that you want to go is the way you are led. So if someone wants to make money through illegal means, he or she will be given the tools and the synchronicities and all the circumstances the universe will conspire to make that happen. But they don’t get the brownie points in heaven and the mitzvah for doing it; they get the negative points, and somebody who wants to do it in a virtuous way, they too, will be led. The universe will conspire to make that happen, but it’s a completely different path, and I think it’s really important to keep that in mind.
I love that you’re bringing that up, because that is also the pitfall of a lot of spiritual people, and I deal with this a lot in my membership, because I did a whole year, and I know you’re part of the membership, so thank you for being part of this, because everybody in the membership also adds to the energy of the membership. And we did one whole year of abundance. And why did we do that? Because everybody who came to the healing sessions. Most everybody, not everybody, but most everybody, had a problem with their abundance. Whether they were at a $5,000 a month level or at $100,000 a month level. Didn’t matter where they were. They felt like they didn’t have enough abundance.
I did this experiment, first with myself and then with the tribe, and I said, Let’s master that. Let’s master that skill. And what we found out is that if you really want that, and there is a part of you that feels, in a way, maybe not deserving, or you’re robbing others of that, that will as a block. And I have that myself. I mean, I’m attesting to that. I am always worried that I’m taking too much, so others are not getting enough. And so I had to first show it to myself. I had, I said, “Okay, before I do this experiment, I was making about 80,000 a month. Okay, I’m going to double my income, and then I’m going to do it again the next year, and once I’ve doubled my income twice or three times, I’m going to share it with people.”
I literally employed the tools. I eliminated those thoughts of inadequacy, and I’m going to tell you in a minute how. And then. I doubled my I doubled my income that year. The next year, I over-doubled it again. And now this year, I’m still working over half of the year, and this year I want to get the tribe my membership up so it actually creates an overflow of energy, that’s my goal. So if you’re listening to me, hold vibration for that, because that’s basically my service to the world is the tribe, the membership, and the membership hasn’t been as sustainable as I wanted it to be. So that’s my goal for this year, getting the tribe sustainable.

What I’m doing, and here’s how I’m doing it, I cannot know how this comes about, because if I know how it comes about, I’ve lived it already, so then I’m just going to make the same amount that I did last year, because I’ve lived that. So I need to be in a mode where I’m allowing something bigger than I can imagine. So I don’t know how the tribe this year is going to thrive that much that creates this big overflow, but I’m intending it. I’m asking for it, and I’m seeing it happen. I’m seeing my tribe live. I’m seeing people just more and more members come in and love it. More people love it, and I’m seeing more people come in for it.
Now, the elimination that needs to happen, and I’ve seen that with so many people. I started this talk about that, how do we eliminate the thought that I’m robbing other people of that, or maybe I’m not a good person if I want more money. And there is a simple hack to that, and it’s just so easy. If it’s available to you, God wants to give it to you. You can replace the word God with universe love, right? God wants to give to you its best, and if you understand that, if you think you are not worthy of the very best, or you think you shouldn’t take it, you’re actually rejecting a beautiful gift that’s supposed to come to you directly from God the universe, love the own universal force that lives through you, then you really realize you need to step out of the way.
You need to let that go. You need to let go of that unworthiness, because you’re meant to have it. You don’t want to. I call it blasphemy. It’s literally blasphemy if I say, “Oh, who am I to receive this?” Now, who are you not to receive this? You are made in the image of the Divine, and you are made in the perfect way, and perfection is what you need to step into. And so perfection is already there. You just need to step into it. And how do you step into it? By saying yes to it for you, so you can serve more.
Right? So, as an example, if somebody thinks that they’re being greedy or selfish by flying first class and that the people who are poor or somehow robbing them for you to go first class, then you should be giving the price difference between coach and first class to charity or whatever. That defeats the whole purpose of this experience of playing this game of life. You live fully, you experience the gifts that God gives you, and you tithe the 10 to 20% that you’re meant to and you actually go above and beyond into what you are imagining the year will be, this year, not retroactively, going back into the previous 12 months to figure out what that 10% number is. And then you’re being in both an abundant place of receiving and an abundant place of being a provider to those less fortunate.
Amazing. I love that, and I love that you brought up tidying. It’s exactly right. I mean, I can give more if I have more. For example, I wanted an electric car after I finally realized that the reason I have an electric car is that I help the universe. I help not the universe. I help the earth. That way, if I have an electric car, I help the planet. So if I have the money to buy a Tesla, for example, then I’m helping the planet. If I have more money, I can help the planet more. And it ties into everything. It ties into charity. It ties into giving, and tithing is such an important part of that. Tithing, oh my gosh, it changed everything for me, because tithing means giving 10% back to a source that feeds you spiritually. It doesn’t mean give to charity. You give to charity.
Also, I give 10% to charity and 10% to tithing. But what it really means is you are giving money back to the source from where it came. Therefore, you’re giving a clear example of the source from where it came that you believe it comes from source. You believe this money comes from a source. I believe this money comes from source through other people, through my beautiful clients that I absolutely love, through other opportunities, but it comes from source through these people, just like it comes from. Source through me, whatever gift I give, including money. And therefore, once we know that and we give back to the source, something happens that activates that stream of energy so strongly back.
Your mind, where you place your attention, becomes the energy you live in. Share on XI see it with my clairvoyance. I ask for something I receive, and then I give a little bit back. As soon as I give a little bit back, it just activates that flow. It’s like a wave that comes back that’s too much to receive. It’s overwhelmingly wonderful. But if we don’t give back, and a lot of people don’t, I mean, I have friends who say I can’t afford to give back, they’re millionaires and they can’t afford to give back, sorry about that. You will not receive that wave. Sorry, you’re not receiving, is what I need to say.
Right? It crimps the garden hose, which stops the flow of energy because you’re trying to keep it for yourself. That’s not how energy and abundance, and money work.
Yeah? Because then you’re in lack, you’re thinking you’re in lack, and you’re creating more lack, even when you’re pushing and receiving money, you’re still in lack consciousness. And when I started the tithing, what I love about it is that I started it when I didn’t have much money at all. I literally paid $500 for my rent, and I had maybe another 500 to live, so I had to be really, really careful, but I gave those $50 tithing and $50 again I tithe, and every time I tithe, I had this feeling of joy. I got to give back. I’m feeling more abundant.
That feeling translated, and it’s very powerful to create that feeling, because once you have that feeling, that’s your magnetism, the law of attraction, attracts more into your life that way, and then you’re overflowing, and you’re literally helping yourself by not You also don’t feel that you’re not giving back, that you shouldn’t receive much. I’m giving to my favorite spiritual community, you know, agape, Spiritual International Center, for example. So I give to them, or I give to Ananda. It’s not a beautiful community that I love, the Yogananda community, and those are the communities I tithe to.
When I tithe, I say to myself, I want more money next month so I can give them more. They started with dollars, then I did 10s. Now I did, then I did hundreds. I’m like, I can’t wait until I tie 1000s. I tire 1000s. I can’t wait until I do the 10,000, 10,000, I mean, how cool is that? And that means you want that rich. You’re giving that much back. One other thing I want to mention, which is just so fun, and it helps me, because I told you, I have that little bit of feeling I’m taking too much. So I like to mitigate that. And I started to do it really in a really fun way. And so when I do charity, I do it in a way that I honor the human. I love to honor the human.
And so, for example, I see a homeless person, and I have a conversation with them, and I ask them, you know, what do they need? What is their mastery in life? What do they believe in? And then I find out, usually, I find out they’re really amazing people, and then I can find out what they need. Particularly, I’m not just giving them something. I ask them how they live, and then I go and get it. If they need shoes, I’ll buy the shoes. If they need a phone. I’ll get the phone, whatever they need, right? And I wrap it up in a gift. And I give them a gift instead of just, Oh, here you have because you are in such a bad situation. No, I honor you. I heard what you needed. I’m giving you a gift. Or sometimes I have people who I notice have little money.
I see their bag. I put some money into their bag so they’ll find it accidentally. Yeah, one person sold me that rose, and I just put like, $100 into their bag for them to find it later. So just surprises like that, where you know you can make a difference. You see this person who feeds the animals, and I just go to the store and I buy all the animal food, and I just give her that big bag. So just like Santa Claus, play Santa Claus, and just give wherever you put something in front of your neighbor’s house. I either buy something or I put something there in front of my neighbor’s house, and they don’t know who it is. You know, it’s just fine
They’ll find out if they listen to this podcast now.
That’s right, they’ll find out. But hey, you know, once everybody does it, it’s amazing, and people are doing it. We just went through Starbucks in Kona here, my son and I, and we had a huge line of cars behind us, and we waited in line for a long time. We got to Starbucks, and the person says your bill is paid for by the conference. Of course, we paid for the car behind us, and he didn’t say anything, until I paid for the car behind us, and he said, This is the 13th person. Now I hope. How cool is that?
That’s amazing. That’s really cool. And. We need to wrap up, but I just want to say something too, that I’m really appreciative in many ways. I’m very appreciative for you, but one thing that really is special to me is when you did a soul reading for me, and you looked in my eyes, and you could see my soul and the nature of my soul, and you said that the depth of love that I have, you really found quite it was special, unusual, and that really stuck with me. And I’m curious, is there a process that you learned to be able to do these soul readings, or did it just come as a download? Or, like, how did this start, where you became capable of this really beautiful gift?
Oh, thank you. This was a surprise to me. I’m telling you, I was on Mindvalley pro membership, where vision brings in his teachers, and I’m one of his mentors. So he did a Higher Self Mastery Pro Training with me. That’s a one-on-one training that goes over.
That’s how I found out about you. I was a Mindvalley pro coaching client, and I attended your class, and it was amazing.
That’s so awesome. I love it. Yeah, and so I was going in this class, and always, like, here in the podcast, I always just download everything as it comes. I never have any scripts. And so I’m talking, and all of a sudden I’m feeling called to bring people on. And I told the person, okay, can we have three or five people come, and I’m gonna just tell them how amazing they are. And I just wanted to find out what their excellence is and share their amazingness. And then they come on, and I realized, wait a minute, I don’t see the whole body. I don’t see their whole being. I probably just need to connect to their eyes.
So I connected to their eyes, and when I saw their eyes, not only did I see their excellence, that they have, which I love, but I also do that at birthday parties. If I have guests, I stand in front of every guest, and I look into them and I tell them what their excellence is, what I love about them, right? It’s a beautiful thing to get, to receive, but I was trying to do that. And then I saw their whole soul. I saw their purpose, and I also saw where they were stuck, where the purpose couldn’t be fulfilled because they had blockages.
I could see where they were living and where they could actually go, and I’m like, wow. And so within three minutes, I could just tell them, “Okay, this is your sole purpose. This is what’s standing in the way, and this is what you need to do in order to release it.”
I was surprised by that as well. So we did five, and then I didn’t even have a session for that. We had to actually create a session for that that people could buy because everybody wanted to buy a soul reading.
You had hundreds and hundreds of people signing up on that call. I was one of them.
We had thousands of people, and the whole year was booked within one day. My whole year was filled with them, but now I’ve removed them from my website because I can’t handle that many soul readings. I actually really need to be very present there, and I can do like five soul readings a day. I can only do like one or two a day, so I’m really fully tuned in. But since you brought it up, I’d be happy to give you a link for that. And people who are listening to this podcast can book a soul reading if they want to.
Amazing, really cool.
But nevertheless, even if you don’t get a soul reading, if you’re listening to this, there’s a beautiful path that you can take that helps you master your energy and master manifestation, what we talked about and more, and how to actually attract things into your life, not just visualize them, and how to access your higher self and Stephan knows about it, because, thankfully, he’s been part of my membership as well.
So that’s called Higher Self Mastery. That’s an amazing course and membership site, and community, and where do they go to sign up for that?
So right now, we only have the course on the website so that people can get into the course first. But for people who are listening here, I’m going to give you also the link that includes the course. So it’s a membership link, because once you’re done with the course, you can have access to the membership. But for you guys, you can have access to the membership right away, and we’ll get the course included into that so you’re not paying for the course, of course is $1,000 you only pay for the membership, which is a year long membership, 97 a month, depending on when you’re listening to that. The price could be different, but just as a monthly payment, or you can pay for the year and save two months.
And once you get into the membership, you have live sessions with me, or one-on-one, twice a month, and several other amazing live sessions with people from the membership, my team, and we also have accountability calls. We have a membership stream where you can communicate with each other and where we actually live the higher self lifestyle. The course gets you to the higher self, but the member. Ship helps you live that higher self lifestyle, and you’ll never want to go back once you’re on that higher self lifestyle. So I want to give you that opportunity here for your listeners, so we can just thank you right into the members.
Yeah, that’s amazing. And you also have some really cool guests that come on and teach some things too, like Marie Diamond, who was really great at manifestation and figuring out the feng shui of your home so that you maximize prosperity and all that and the relationships that you have, etc. So, yeah, you got some really cool friends.

Yeah, amazing Missy Butcher just came on from Lifebook. And so you have amazing people there. I am grateful for my friends. And of course, this is all divinely infused. So people really get charged up every month, minimum. But now, you know, we have members who are offering higher self groups, who are offering soul language, light language, who are offering accountability calls. So that you can actually, you know, the problem with courses is that people don’t do them. I’m the same. I buy a course, and then I don’t do it.
But if you have a group in the community that does it with you, and you meet with them, for example, live on Zoom to go to the higher self and ask an important question that you have, and you get four answers that are all relevant. I mean, you’re coming back. You love that. And you get an energy recharge every month. All of a sudden, you know different topics, for health, for wealth, for family. Before you do Thanksgiving, you do a Thanksgiving session. All of a sudden, your Thanksgiving party is just bliss, because we change the energy before we do something, and we help you do that. So it’s beautiful.
Yeah. And one thing I learned from Jeffrey Allen, who’s another Mindvalley teacher and really amazing soul, is that if you join after the fact as like you’re just watching the recording because you had a conflict, you actually are in the soul group of the people that were attending live, because your intention is that, hey, I’m listening as if I’m participating live, even though I know this is recorded, then you get included in that, because time is an illusion. It’s kind of mind-boggling. It’s really cool.
That’s why these sessions actually end up being more and more powerful the longer they are in the library. We now have 120 sessions in the library, because I even say that in the session, I say, okay, the people who are listening to the recording right now receive our energy. We’re coding it that way, and then the attention of the people listening comes to the fact that it’s so powerful. It’s a powerful group that just grows in impact. And I have a lot of members. And you know that whoever says, “I need help here, tribe, please send energy to me. The tribe sends energy.” And they say, because of the tribe. I got this lawsuit handled because of the tribe.
My mom’s surgery went well because of the tribe. I have this relationship conflict dissolved, because not only are you tapping into that curated energy that’s already there, you’re also asking for help. And as soon as you ask for help, like it already says in the Bible, Ask and you shall receive. All this energy comes back to you, but you know, you need to know where to ask, and that’s an opportunity right here. Yeah, amazing.
Ariya, this was fabulous. You’re such a light in the world, and it was such an honor and pleasure to have you on the show. Thank you for being here. Thank you for all the light that you reveal in the world, and also, thank you, listener, thank you, viewer, for the light that you reveal in the world. Go out there and make it a better place, and have a fantastic week. Thank you.
Thank you so much. Stephan, it’s been an honor to be here. I love you so much. I honor you for all the work you do. You help so many people, and your podcast is amazing. The guests you have on there, I just bless you and send you so much love to your family also, and to all the listeners listening, love and Aloha from Hawaii.
Amazing. All right, thank you. We’ll catch you on the next episode. I’m your host. Stephan Spencer, signing off.
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